EROTIC MASSAGE

Erotic massage is commonly thought of as a massage with a “happy ending”. A singular focus on sexual gratification is a common misconception. Erotic massage is so much more. It is holistic, combining the physical, emotional, and spiritual dimensions for a more comprehensive experience than other types of massage offer.

Erotic massage is personalized. Each session is tailored to the massage receiver's unique boundaries, desires, and concerns. The primary purpose of the intake meeting is for the giver and receiver to identify and agree on common ground. Unlike other types of massage, the giver will not follow a set routine, as no two massages are the same.

Erotic massage provides full-body sensual touches, including touches to erogenous areas other massage types ignore. The purpose is relaxation and pleasure combined with the possibility of sexual arousal. Touch sensitivity and pleasure are heightened when turbo-charged by sexual arousal. This is the focus of erotic massage. Orgasm sometimes occurs, but it is not a direct focus.

Erotic massage is about connection and often fosters a deep emotional bond between the giver and receiver. This seems obvious when lovers share an erotic massage experience, but any giver and receiver can form a bond. Even a very brief connection is no less real. The sense of connection with a fellow human being is powerful, and the emotional benefits often extend beyond the physical experience.

Erotic massage promotes self-awareness by helping the receiver better understand her body’s sensitive and pleasurable areas. For many, erotic massage is the best source of this understanding. Sexual intercourse requires physical activity and partner focus. Masturbation requires physical activity, usually working toward an end objective. Conversely, erotic massage makes no demands, as there is no need to do anything. Nothing is required of the receiver except to focus on self, receive pleasure, and possibly gain new insights while on the table.

Erotic massage can be meditative and inspire mindfulness. It can play any spiritual role the receiver invokes. It can relate to chakras and the movement of energy through the body. It can be about energy transfer between the giver and the receiver. Energy arising from sexual arousal can be used to send intentions out to the universe. The possibilities are endless. 

I have just presented six characteristics of erotic massage and how it might differ from other massage types. I am aware that erotic massage is not for everyone or even a significant percentage of women seeking massage. However, I do not doubt that erotic massage for women would be much more in demand if better known and understood. But there is no doubt whatsoever that the sensually enlightened woman loves it. I sincerely hope you are now, or will soon be, her. 


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